Organize Your Diet – Part 2

As I mentioned in my last blog post, a common theme with my clients is wanting to organize their health and weight issues. I struggled with my weight for a long time, and have learned to make the things I do a regular part of my lifestyle rather than go on and off diets. My weight has been stable for years.

Here’s what works really well:

  1. Eat more fresh foods and less processed foods. (Fast foods are usually processed.)
  2. Eat more green stuff and less sugar. (Simple but not easy.) 
  3. Drink more water and less caffeine. (Many folks are dehydrated due to drinking too much caffeine and not enough water.)
  4. Eat a balance of protein, carbohydrates, and some fat. (Carbs and fats are okay, just be mindful of them; they’re easy to overdo because they’re comfort foods.)
The way I suggest handling comfort foods – and emotional eating – are to have 80% of  your diet fresh, green, “clean” foods. And allow yourself 20% of fun, emotional, comfort-type foods. By eating this way you don’t end up with all-or-nothing type eating where  you say, “Heck with it!” and binge – and ending up feeling lousy and guilty.
 
The more aware – more conscious – you are as you eat, the easier this balance is. When you eat, don’t multi-task, just sit and eat. One cause of overeating is that people eat while watching TV or while on the computer, or driving.
 
Many times in my life I’ve heard it said that, “The French eat what they want and don’t get fat.” What I suspect is that the folks in that culture take time while they eat and enjoy what they’re having, so they don’t have the impulse to overeat.
 
Bring yourself into the present moment and eat consciously. If people did more of that – and made choices that erred on the side of “fresh and green” they’d have less struggles with their weight. 
   
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Organize Your Diet – Part 1

When I suggest to my clients that they write down everything they want to organize and change in their lives, most often their health and weight are at the top of the list. Here are a few ideas to help you create and maintain optimum body weight. 

First of all: STOP DIETING. 

My credibility on that statement is, I don’t diet and I don’t have weight issues. You could say I’m a “naturally” slender person, but that’s not really true in the sense that I worked hard for many years to become aware of my feelings and learned to use them as a guide – rather than external prompts. 

By external prompts I’m referring to artificially limiting what you eat, how much you eat, or the times you eat.

I don’t do any of that – I just eat what I want and when I want – which is maddening to some people. However, it’s not that simple, I’ve learned to want what’s good for me. To put it another way, I’ve learned to want what contributes to optimum weight and good health. And I’ve learned to eat more slowly, enjoy what I’m eating, and know when I’ve “hit the wall” as a friend of mine used to say. When I hit the wall, it’s not exactly like I’m full, it’s that I know I’ve had enough: at this point, food doesn’t taste as good as it did when I started eating.

And where food is concerned, I encourage breaking the rules, because over the years I’ve seen them change. Egg yolks are bad for you, then they’re good for you. The same goes for butter, and so on. So instead of following rules, I suggestion listening to what your body wants and eating it in moderation.

Recently I read that it’s really, really important for a variety of reasons to slow down and chew. That’s good common sense and doesn’t strike me as something that will change. Somehow I can’t imagine reading something that says, “Yep, the best thing for health is to wolf your food down barely aware that you’re eating.” Not gonna happen. 

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Reorganizing due to Economics and Health

Some folks contacted me regarding the book Adrenal Fatigue, which I wrote about in my last post. Here’s more information:

A lot of people are experiencing challenging transitions due to the economic conditions of recent years. I view a challenge as an opportunity. We are being given lots of opportunities for reorganizing our lives. 

Are you working harder than ever? Money’s tight? And you’re stuck in circumstances that if you had more viable options, you’d choose otherwise? Does this sound familiar? 

For example, that job isn’t making your heart sing (and never will) … You’re living somewhere that, if you had your druthers, you’d change … Stuff like that can wear you out. And on top of it all, you’re watching your savings, 401 K plan and stocks bounce up and down.

Things that cause the adrenals to burn-out are running rampant in modern day society. In addition to being stuck in a challenging job and relationship and stressing over finances, you’re:

– waking up earlier, staying up later, and not getting enough sleep … making poor food choices (processed fast food) – using foods that contain sugar to stimulate yourself … using caffeine containing beverages to stay alert … eating too much chocolate … constantly pushing yourself … being a perfectionist …

Sound familiar? I believe adrenal fatigue is the next big health issue on the horizon…

How this relates to organizing is that it’s important to organize our lives on a variety of levels. We need to organize our food choices and food shopping. We need to organize time in our lives to de-stress with things like yoga, meditation, and walking (or whatever you like).

We need to accept responsibility and make the best of what we have with what we’ve got … It’s our responsibility to bloom, despite bleak conditions.

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Organizing Your Health

I almost died last winter (no exaggeration). Doctors misdiagnosed me; gave me a bunch of medications I didn’t need and I had a really bad reaction. 

Finally got to a couple of extraordinary “east meets west” doctors who found the root cause. Turns out that being a workaholic, drinking coffee and eating sugar over a long period of time can burn out the adrenal glands – which may affect the thyroid and heart among other things. Who knew? 

My whole adult life, the regular docs would compliment me for my low blood pressure, not realizing it was a sign my adrenal glands weren’t working properly. The regular docs aren’t seeing adrenal burnout because there’s no ICD code (yet!). In fact the regular docs may be suffering from it themselves! 

Check out the book Adrenal Fatigue by Dr. James Wilson. The good news is you can test yourself; there are also various lab tests for it. The other good news is that the recovery plan is simple and straightforward. I’m feeling great now!

This experience was helpful for me. As a master’s level psychologist, writer, organizer, and transition coach, I always pay attention to the experiences I have to see what I can learn. From there I can be of greater benefit when I share with others. One thing I learned was how to organize time in a way that lends greater support to attaining and maintaining excellent physical health. It’s got to be made a priority, or it’ll get lost in the busy-ness of life. There needs to be a balance between work and play…

I share organizing guidelines and ideas to help you stay on keel physically, mentally and emotionally. These levels of organizing will, in turn, increase your health in various ways. 

At 50, I’m stopping to smell the roses a little more often now. If not now, when?

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Transition Coaching

Coaching others through their transitions is a passion of mine; I specialize in helping creative professionals. Working with a non-traditional, flexible, intuitive, open-minded, ‘tailor-made to fit you’ style is my approach…

Here’s how my interest in coaching began and evolved:

In 1991, I was considering going back to school to earn degrees in psychology – and thought it wise to get some experiences to see if I would like to work in the field of mental health. At the time I co-owned a restaurant in Southern California, and was growing tired of the business. 

Opportunities presented themselves, and I volunteered with a couple different non-profits, doing coaching-type work. I loved it.

After finishing a bachelor’s degree in psychology, in January of 1995, I was hired by the University of California at Los Angeles – Neuropsychiatric Institute (UCLA-NPI) as a researcher and job coach. Put to the task of collecting data from the seriously mentally ill residents of Camarillo State Hospital, I enjoyed the challenge. I was also put to the task of job coaching in Los Angeles and Santa Barbara, helping people with mental and emotional difficulties find jobs and keep them. I even had the great good fortune to assist in the development of UCLA-NPI’s “Workplace Fundamentals Module” workbook – and helped write and edit related articles.  

I’ve continued to coach in various forms ever since. A natural at teaching and training, I love developing materials and helping people learn and grow – whether it’s one-on-one, with a couple, or with a group.

I always look at things through the lenses of communicating and organizing. Coaching people through transitions is about communicating compassionately and effectively to help folks organize themselves. To be effective through change, we need to understand how to physically organize ourselves – and also organize ourselves emotionally and mentally. In this way we can be focused, calm, and ready to greet the opportunities that come our way.

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Why I Started this Organizing Business

A few years ago I helped my sister, Linda, paint her kitchen. We did what you do when you paint – pulled everything out of the cupboards and drawers and put the contents into the next room.

We cleaned and covered and taped. Then we painted. After it was dry, as we put everything back, we organized it in a way that that was more deliberate. We paid attention to how my sister moved through time and space, and what she used most often. We put “like with like;” arranged things into clearly recognizable categories. It was more effective and functional than it had previously been. And we paid attention to the flow of energy – and created a beautiful environment. 

My sister loves to cook and stays busy as a home-school mom of three. The level of organizing we implemented supported her more effectively and really pleased her.

Thrilled with the changes, she asked if I’d help her organize her pantry, garage, and an armoire in which she kept art supplies. I told her I really enjoyed organizing and was happy to assist.

After we organized the other areas she declared, “You’re really good at this! You should start an organizing business!” 

It struck me as an excellent idea, and my business, Wilde Services, was born. I use the slogan, Wilde About Organizing, because looking back over my life, I saw that no matter where I went and what I did – for about the last 20 or 25 years – I always looked at projects with an eye for how to organize them more effectively. Why? It makes life easier. 

Organizing is my strength – it’s a gift that exists inside of me – may as well use it to benefit others.  

On my next blog post I’ll explain how the coaching part of my business began.  

Thanks for visiting!

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